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4 Ideas for Making Christmas Meaningful

Life is busy, we all know that. It’s especially busy when there are children in the house. The fact is, December can be full-on frantic for families, and holiday plans often get bulldozed into the trite routines we all find ourselves stuck in. What we need are some meaningful Christmas ideas that redirect us from kitschy, corny, and knee-jerk materialism.

Busy or not, December is still the season romantics like to call, “The most beautiful time of the year.” If we’re ever going to get a fair run at beautiful, we really do have to slow down and smell the poinsettias. We must nudge our families away from the mall and in the direction of meaning, and enter into the spirit of giving. [Tweet This] Because Christmas is standing right there, impoverished, waiting for us to look beyond ourselves, and catch a glimpse of the star, the shepherds, and God’s most amazing promise.

Try the following ideas for making Christmas meaningful this year.

1. Countdown from Thanksgiving by following a simple Advent calendar:

You can pick one up in most Christmas catalogs. But take a careful look to make sure each day or window has a message that ties in to the real meaning of Christmas. Use the daily verses or thoughts as a guide to set each day on the proper trajectory.

2. Gather the family to watch one meaningful holiday movie together per week:

Miracle on 34th Street. It’s A Wonderful Life. A Christmas Carol. A Charlie Brown Christmas. We all have our favorites, and the best stories help us refocus and think about how huge a story Christmas is. Pizza, popcorn, and a few good discussion questions up your sleeve.

3. Sponsor a needy family with kids that match your children’s ages:

One All Pro Dad marks his children’s transition from selfish to generous during a Christmas where the family embraced a service project. It was the best Christmas ever. It surprised everyone and, ten years down the road, it is still making a difference.

4. Read a Christmas book together as a family:

Family story time may sound like a blast from the past, but gathering around Dad for 15 minutes of a story two or three times a week could fit in at family mealtime, bedtime, or some other window of opportunity. Again, it’s a shift in focus, a warm experience, and an intentionally out-of-the-ordinary reminder that this time of the year is special.

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What consistently gets your family in the Christmas spirit?

Derek Maul

Derek Maul is the author of five books, a nationally recognized men’s resource, a committed encourager, and a pilgrim in progress. He divides his time between writing and traveling to speak about the fully engaged life.

  • Ed

    Happy to say we do all 4 of these each and every Christmas Season. Thank you for sharing and we will be sure to pass these family Christmas must do’s along!

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