Blogger Chance Scoggins relates the following story:

“Like many of you, my wife and I are the parents of young children.  We wouldn’t trade these days for anything in the world, but it’s not an exaggeration to say that it’s 24/7.  We’re also self-employed, and as our business and responsibilities grow, we’re feeling the pressures that come with filling every role from receptionist to CEO – while also raising a family, maintaining our marriage and serving our community.  I imagine many of you feel a similar pressure, so I thought I’d share this story.

The other night, after a string of tough days, we fell into bed, both of us almost asleep before our heads hit the pillows.  But in the stillness, as I tried to quiet my mind, all I could think about was how hard Jennifer’s day must have been with all she had on her plate.  I realized I’d spent my whole day taking great care of my to-do list, but not taking great care of her.

Sigh.

I reached over, took her hand, and gave her a little squeeze.  ‘How are you holding up?’

Tears welled in her eyes, and she said, ‘I’m okay… It’s just a lot, you know?’  I gently squeezed her hand again.  Then the tears came.  ‘Sometimes I just wish we could move to the middle of nowhere and get a cow.’”

All married couples can relate to Chance’s story. Chance goes on and does a great job answering the question all families face, “How Will You Know It Was Worth It?”

Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her:  “How will we know if this is worth it?”