Ep. 60 - Tony Dungy: How Do I Help My Kid Handle the Unexpected?

In this inspiring episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by Family First Founder & CEO Mark Merrill and legendary football coach and All Pro Dad spokesman Tony Dungy. Together, they discuss the challenges of balancing work and family life, and how to help children handle life’s unexpected events with calm and resilience.

Ted, Mark, and Tony share personal stories and practical advice on maintaining a positive attitude, staying calm under pressure, and using faith and prayer as tools for navigating life’s surprises. They also emphasize the generational impact of parenting styles, showing how dads can be steady role models for their kids, even in challenging times.

Why Handling the Unexpected Matters

The episode highlights the importance of teaching kids how to respond calmly and positively when life doesn’t go as planned. By modeling resilience and emotional control, dads can equip their children with the tools they need to thrive in an unpredictable world.

Generational Parenting and Its Impact

Tony and Mark reflect on the parenting lessons passed down from their fathers and discuss how those lessons continue to shape their approach to fatherhood today.

Practical Tools for Dads

From storytelling to actionable advice, this episode provides dads with strategies to manage stress, maintain emotional control, and instill these valuable skills in their kids.

Important Episode Timestamps:

  • (00:00) Introduction to All Pro Dad
    Ted Lowe opens the episode, introducing the mission of All Pro Dad and the importance of being intentional in parenting.

  • (00:24) Meet the Guests: Mark Merrill and Tony Dungy
    Mark Merrill and Tony Dungy join the conversation, sharing their backgrounds and their passion for empowering dads through All Pro Dad.

  • (00:56) The Origin of All Pro Dad
    Mark and Tony discuss the founding of All Pro Dad and how its mission has impacted families around the world.

  • (04:18) Handling the Unexpected: Personal Stories
    Tony shares stories from his coaching and parenting journey, highlighting moments when staying calm and resilient made all the difference. Mark and Ted also share personal anecdotes about navigating life’s surprises with faith and composure.

  • (16:04) Lessons from Our Fathers
    The hosts reflect on the lessons they learned from their own fathers, emphasizing the importance of passing on wisdom and being consistent role models for their kids.

  • (22:12) Pro Move of the Week
    Tony offers a powerful tip for dads: “Teach your kids to focus on what they can control, stay calm under pressure, and trust that challenges are opportunities for growth.”

  • (23:13) Conclusion and Final Thoughts
    Ted, Mark, and Tony wrap up the conversation with encouragement for dads to embrace challenges and remain steady influences in their children’s lives.


APD Pro Move:
“ When confronted with an unexpected moment, or a difficult situation, take the time to pause and think about your reaction. Think about what your reaction is going to say to your family and then respond.”

Sponsor:
 The All Pro Dad Podcast is proudly brought to you by Family First, a nonprofit dedicated to equipping parents with resources to strengthen their families. Learn more at FamilyFirst.net.

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