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10 Ways to Teach Your Children Humility

    10 Ways to Teach Your Children Humility

    Author GK Chesterton said: “What we suffer from today is humility in the wrong place. A man was meant to be doubtful about himself, but undoubting about the truth. This is now exactly reversed."

    Many modern young people state there is no absolute truth, but they are supremely overconfident in themselves. So when your son or daughter displays genuine humility, they stand out like the noonday sun. Here’s 10 ways to teach your children humility:

  1. Modeling.

    Never underestimate the power of teaching through example. Humility must be consistently modeled as a lifestyle, not an on-again, off-again example.

  2. Build them up.

    This may sound counter intuitive, but it’s important to understand that humility always comes from a position of belief, strength, and self-assurance.

  3. Encourage and help them to be the very best they can beno matter what they do.

    Humility works best when your child has actually achieved something! Help your child achieve with confidence.

  4. Make sure they understand where their real value comes from.

    It’s easier to sidestep pride or arrogance when children understand that they are valued simply because they are your child, not because they win the race, have a prettier mom (and a smarter dad!), earn a higher income, or score the most points.

  5. Never humiliate your kids.

    Humility cannot be imposed. It’s important not to confuse humiliation, bullying, and beating down with an education in humility.

  6. Expose your child to the great teachers and their stories.

    Jesus, Mother Teresa, Eric Liddell… are all wonderful role models. For Jesus, there are lots of great children’s books about him, as well as about Mother Teresa. Eric Liddell is the man who inspired the movie, Chariots of Fire, a great film for your whole family. 

  7. Teach them to serve.

    - Serve the homeless

    - Serve the poor

    - Serve their family

    - Serve one another

  8. Coach them on how to respond.

    Kids need to be taught to say, “please” and “thank you” as much as they need to be taught to brush their teeth and to stay out of the street. So why expect them to know humility without guidance? Here’s an example: “Look, Jr., that’s a great job you did on your science fair project. You deserved to win the prize. Now, this is how you handle it in class tomorrow…let’s practice saying,


    "I like the way my friend, Matt, did his project, too."

    "I don’t think I could have won without the help of my teacher.”

    You get the idea.

  9. Teach them how to apologize.

    The well-timed and sincere apology is a key component of humility. Sometimes they’re wrong; they need to acknowledge that. Sometimes they overreach and it’s time to back up. Sometimes, they receive unintentional consequences they need to smooth over.

  10. Teach them to give thanks.

    A genuinely grateful heart is a key building block for humility. Gratitude, practiced and eventually owned, enhances humility at every turn. The person saying “thank you” affects a posture that is unassuming and modest. Try this: every time someone offers a compliment, simply say, “thank you.” It’s the kind of response that eventually soaks in, grows roots, and blooms humility.


    Related Resource: The 7 Marks of Maturity


    Huddle up and ask your children tonight: 

    Who is the most humble person you know?  Why do you think they are that way?

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  • Gurgleplex 4 weeks ago
    Good Advice as always.  Easier said than done.
  • Alfonso Romo 10 months ago
    This is TERRIFIC, is a good program, my question is: this program is teaching in spanish? You have material in my language? my english is not very good.
    If possible send me information, thank you and GOD BLESS YOU coach Tony and team
  • Grnbaykwaps 3 weeks ago
    I have followed these top 10 as a father with my 4 children (2boys & 2girls). Things worked out just fine, they now have blessed me with 5 grandchildren. Today I'm repeating the 10 with a grandson who lives with me. His single parent mother and I try to follow all the rules without father he so needs to learn from! We take him to yearly All Pro Dad events and just love the whole day together!!!
  • James_lake 3 weeks ago
    I love this All Pro Dad!
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