My knees ached. The pressure on my feet made them feel like they could break at any moment. My body was wearing down. The finish line was in sight, but it didn’t seem to be getting any closer. The last remaining miles of a marathon are excruciating. A marathon is a long distance running race covering over 26 miles. The only thing that enabled me to finish was how hard I’d trained. Over the course of many months, I had built up muscles to handle that moment. Hitting the pavement daily over long distances prepared me mentally. A marathon tests strength, emotions, and patience. It is a challenging race to finish let alone run well.
Running a marathon was the most difficult thing I had ever done until I became a dad. Fatherhood is a race that lasts a lifetime. Being a dad tests every inch of you. Intentional parenting and focused training will build you into the dad every child longs for. Here are 7 fatherhood training exercises to be the dad your kids need.
Speaking to experienced marathon runners gives someone a feel for the race. In the same way, there are great fathers who have traveled the same road you are on. Seek the advice of men who are a couple steps ahead of you. Note the mistakes they made as well as the victories. There is a lot to learn from both.
When training for a marathon, competitors follow a running schedule. It starts small and gradually gets more intense. Set daily goals of things you want to work on. Make sure they are measurable and achievable. Be patient and build over time.
3. Get Deep
Eventually whatever is most true of us at our core comes to the surface.Nagging injuries need to be evaluated, healed, and strengthened. In the same way, old wounds from childhood and painful experiences have a way of forming us. They reside in our core. Eventually whatever is most true of us at our core comes to the surface. Do some digging to find out what exists below the surface. Then seek what it takes to heal and strengthen.
A wise racer will always become familiar with the different phases of the racing ground. Knowing the hills and terrain enables a runner to strategize. Fatherhood has many phases, each with its own challenges. Gather information about these challenges before you get there. Then put together strategies.
A marathon takes the right shoes, clothing, and articles from expert runners. In other words, it takes resources. “Gear up” in the same way with resources that will prepare you. Load up on materials from experts on fatherhood. This site is a great place to start. Also, check out books, such as All Pro Dad.
God knows how to be a father better than anyone. Ask Him for wisdom and strength daily. We need all the help we can get.
Get out there and run. There are going to be great days and really hard ones. The biggest key to running a successful race is being disciplined. Consistently put your shoes on and go. Be with your children with focused attention and enjoy the journey each day.
Sound off: What do you do to become a better dad?