I love teenagers. For fifteen years I spent week after week creating nights of fun activities for teens. A few things I observed about teenagers is they love to laugh, play, experience adventure, and be heard.[ctt template=”9″ link=”3LSwB” via=”no” ]A few things I observed about teenagers is they love to laugh, play, experience adventure, and be heard.[/ctt] If you can create an experience that includes at least one of these you will be off and running. When you create an experience that includes all four you will make a bonding moment, and, potentially, a life-long memory.
Here are 10 fun things to do with your teens.
1. Get Active
Teens tend to have a lot of energy to get out, so go out there and get active with them. Play basketball or tennis. Take them to a lake and water ski or tube in the summer. In the winter take them to the slopes to ski.
2. Movie Marathon
Come to consensus on which movie series or genre to watch. A friend of mine did an Avengers marathon with a group of guys and another friend did the Lord of the Rings trilogy with his kids. It can be that or romantic comedies with your daughter. Get everyone’s favorite food, stay up late, perhaps even all night. Make it a special event. You can even make it a tradition. There will probably be some unexpected conversations along the way.
3. Hike, Camp, and/or Rock Climb
This definitely brings in the adventure component. Find a trail to hike or a camping place. If you are trained and have the proper equipment take them rock climbing. If not, find a local rock climbing wall. There’s nothing like conquering a physical challenge together.
4. Go to an Amusement Park
Not much can rival the fun of a big amusement park. Wherever you live, there is one within driving distance. As long as you are in good health, get out there with your teen and have a blast. The shared adrenaline rush on a roller coaster as your stomach feels like it leaves your body will be a moment neither of you will forget.
5. Community service
It’s important your teen learns that the world really doesn’t revolve around him/her. This doesn’t have to be a tough lesson, however. There are opportunities to volunteer that are rewarding as well as fun. Working side by side with your teen that involves sacrifice for the benefit of another will elevate your relationship.
6. Take A Road Trip
From coast to coast to everything in between, there is adventure to be found on the road. Make sure your child gets to see the sites up close and personal. Find quirky places to visit. Most of all, keep off the interstate when at all possible. The people, the food, and the scenery will bring hours of conversation.
7. Photo Hunt
Take your teen on a nature hike with cameras in hand, and hunt the beautiful creatures and landscape. Take the time beforehand to learn what animals you may see and their behavior. This will keep you and the animals safe as well. Your child will learn an appreciation for nature and all of its living creatures.
8. Play Games
Host a game night at your house if your teens are willing. Get a great spread of food and play Family, Mafia (although I personally like a similar game called The Werewolves of Millers Hollow even better), Catch Phrase, Over the Mountain, Four on the Couch, Three on the Couch (completely different game), Two Truths and Lie, or Pictionary Down The Lane. For directions and rules to play all of these games, click here.
Maybe it’s the simple nature of the sport and the obvious lack of tension in the building that puts everyone at ease. Grab some food, laugh at the gutterballs, and cheer for each others’ strikes.
10. Let Them Decide
The whole point is to spend meaningful time with your kid. Let them decide what they would like to do as long as it’s within reason. You may learn something you never knew about them or possibly even yourself. Give them control and go along with enthusiasm.
Huddle Up Question
Huddle up with your kids and ask, “Would you be interested in doing any of these ideas?”