We don’t get married for the extended family, and sometimes what they bring to the table can be challenging. In fact, even if you really like your in-laws (which I do…in case they’re reading this blog), you’ve likely had to deal with the real challenge that comes when you are welcomed into a family whose traditions seem foreign to you. Holidays like Christmas can exacerbate this as family comes to visit, traditions collide, and everyone feels the pressure to make it a Hallmark-worthy event.