Many years ago I remember getting ready for bed on a typical Saturday night. It was late and I was tired, looking forward to some long overdue rest. At that time I was single but had a crush on a girl. When my phone rang and I saw it was her, any sense of sleepiness went out the window. We talked until four in the morning. It was the type of conversation where your ear hurts from holding the phone to it for so long. That girl would eventually become my wife. Do you remember having conversations like that with your wife when you were dating?It’s important for the health of the entire family for you and your wife to stay connected.
When kids arrive it’s easy to have all the focus, energy, and conversations about the little ones. There are seasons where that is necessary. However, it is important for the health of the entire family for you and your wife to stay connected. In order to help you grow deeper in your relationship, we’ve put together a list of date conversation topics you can use with your wife. Hopefully, it will stir one of those conversations that last for hours. Here are 10 conversation starters for dates with your wife.
1. Outdoors vs. Indoors.
Which outdoor activities do you enjoy most? Which indoor activities do you enjoy most?
2. Going Back.
If you could go back in time to any point in your life, what would you like to go back and experience again? What major world event during your lifetime would you return to?
3. Interior Decorator.
If you could design the perfect master bedroom, what would it look like?
4. The Movie of Your Life.
If a movie was made about your life, what do you think the title would be? What actress would play you? What actor would play me?
If you were the owner of a restaurant, what would be the theme and what type of food would be served?
6. First times.
What was the first meal you cooked on your own? What was the first time you drove a car alone like? When was the first time you thought we’d be together forever? When was the first time you felt like an adult?
7. You’re a superstar.
If you were to become famous for something, what would you like it to be for?
8. Difficult vs. Easy.
What is the most difficult thing for you to do? What is the easiest thing for you to do?
9. This or that.
Would you rather host a party or attend a party?
10. Fears and scary things.
What are your biggest fears? What animal scares you the most?